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Activity
At-a-Glance

Time:

45 Minutes

Materials:

  • Chart paper

  • Marker
  • A strong rope
  • A very heavy object or crate
  • “Hug O'War” poem by Shel Silverstein
  • Any other tools for moving the heavy object such as:
    • Bungee chords
    • Heavy duty tape
    • Large wooden sticks

Physical Setting:

A room that allows space for the movement of the activity

Sequence:

  • 15 minutes for reading poem and introduction discussion

  • 20 minutes for activity
  • 10 minutes for processing
Youth Workers
Hug O’ War - Religious Perspective
Adapted from Learning to Give

Age:

  • 7-11

Philanthropy is:

  • Sharing time, talent and treasure, and taking action for the common good.

Purpose:

  • Participants will have the opportunity to demonstrate how teamwork is effective in accomplishing a goal and in being a better philanthropist.

Objectives:

The young person will:

  • recognize the importance of cooperation and teamwork.
  • discover how philanthropy, teamwork and cooperation go together.

Religious Activity Theme:

 

Pirkei Avot 2:7
“The more charity, the more peace.”

Ecclesiastes 4:12
By yourself you're unprotected. With a friend you can face the worst. Can you round up a third? A three-stranded rope isn't easily snapped.
(Scripture taken from The Message. Copyright ? 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 2000, 2001, 2002. Used by permission of NavPress Publishing Group)

Hindu Proverb

"Help other’s boat across and your own will reach the shore."

 

Activity Steps:

  • Ask participants for examples they have where cooperation is important, i.e. faith organization, team sports, school group projects, family related activities, service projects. Ask participants to share experiences of cooperation in their faith organization. How does cooperation facilitate the groups’ activities? Invite the group to do an activity now that will give them a first-hand look at the effects of cooperation on teamwork.
  • Show participants the heavy object that they will be moving during the activity. (Facilitator should determine the distance they must move the object based upon the age and maturity of the group) Show the participants that items are available to assist them in moving the heavy object. (Facilitator may have any number of creative possibilities including a strong rope, bungee cords or tape) Instruct the participants to think of as many ways as possible to move the heavy object. Facilitator records their ideas.
  • Ask for a few individual volunteers to try moving the object. Cross out the suggestions from the list that did not work.
  • Form groups of approximately 5-6 people. Ask the groups to generate ideas for moving the object, working together in a cooperative way. Add these to the list if they are new. Ask: How do these ideas differ from the ones that were tried and crossed out?
  • Instruct the groups that we will now see if they can move the object using one of the group's ideas. Remind them that everyone in the group must participate in some way in moving the object. (One cooperative method that works is to tie a rope around the heavy object and have all of the group members pull together.)
  • Once each group has successfully moved the heavy object, begin the processing.

Processing Questions:

  1. Tell me what happened when an individual working alone attempted to move the heavy object. How did you feel during the attempts where you were not successful?
  2. What are some things that hinder us from cooperating with others? (we don’t get along, they don’t do as much work, we want the praise, we can’t agree on how it should be done…)
  3. Tell me what happened during the second attempt when you cooperated. How did you feel as an individual during the attempt that involved more cooperation?
  4. What talent(s) did you use during this activity to help the group be successful and how did you use them?
  5. What are other places in your lives where cooperation is important?
  6. What do we want to remember about cooperation, and caring and sharing in the community from this activity?
    Additional Question – Scripture
  7. How did you see the passage in Ecclesiastes come true as you were trying to accomplish this task?

Variation:

Instruct participants to draw a picture representing what happens when everyone cooperates in the community.

Supplemental Activity:

Ask participants to check with family members about all the ways cooperation is important in their work or as they volunteer in the community.

Activity Source:

Learning to Give Lesson (K-2) Hug O' War

Unit Philanthropic Behavior

Additional Resources:

Teamwork - Habitat For Humanity

Learning to Give Lesson (3-5) Too Big a Task

Unit Philanthropy in Literature

Cooperation

Learning to Give Lesson (K-2) Cooperative Building

Unit Philanthropic Behavior

Teamwork

Learning to Give Lesson (K-2) Picture-Go-Round (Responsible Personal Conduct)

Unit Growing as a Group

 

Attachment One

Hug O' War

I will not play at tug o' war.
I'd rather play at hug o' war,
Where everyone hugs
Instead of tugs,
Where everyone giggles
And rolls on the rug,
Where everyone kisses,
And everyone grins,
And everyone cuddles,
And everyone wins.

By Shel Silverstein
From the book Where the Sidewalk Ends

Philanthropy Theme Framework :

Strand Standard Benchmark
PHIL I. Definitions of Philanthropy DP 01. Define Philanthropy E 3. Recognize that citizens have a responsibility for the common good, and define core democratic values.
PHIL II. Philanthropy and Civil Society PCS01. Self, citizenship, and society E 3. Describe a benefit of group cooperation.
PHIL II. Philanthropy and Civil Society PCS05. Philanthropy and Government E 2. Identify why rules are important and how not all behaviors are covered by rules.
PHIL III. Philanthropy and the Individual PI 01. Reasons for Individual Philanthropy E 2. Identify why people practice philanthropy related to their own self-interest.